What would you like to experience in life?
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I’ve heard many people say that life is not about the destination, it’s about the journey, but only after many years did I finally understand it.
There was a very famous slogan coined by the car manufacturer Nissan: life is a journey, enjoy the ride.
Life is meant to be enjoyed, you see we don’t only live once, we live every day, what enjoyable experiences would you like to have your everyday life?
Would you like to travel to beautiful remote islands, perhaps you would like to experience how it feels to play the cello or would you like to experience what it feels like to wake up every morning next to your soulmate, who loves you unconditionally?
You can have the best fun and loving experiences in your life if you don’t confuse means goals with end goals. Let me explain, many people put the focus on going to college, getting a degree and getting a good job, but these are all means goals. Now I have nothing against getting a degree (full disclosure I have one myself) the issue comes when your choice of degree or career path wasn’t chosen based on your end goals but was imposed on you because of outdated thinking that there’s only one way to success- and that’s by getting a law, medicine or engineering degree. This is the problem of goal setting, people only put the focus on the means goals and then wonder why they’re not experiencing the life that they wanted. Only when your goals truly match your purpose will you really experience the life that you want and unleash your full potential.
If you would like to discover the 3 ways in which you can unleash your full potential, then click below and download my free short e-book and you will experience life as it was intended to be- enjoyed!
Most people are forced by society or even their parents to take on one definition of success.
This couldn’t be further from the truth, as we all have our own definition of success.
For example many people might say if you get a good job you will be successful, but when you look at the Forbes list of the wealthiest people in the world, none of them have jobs. I’m not sure if you’ve heard what job actually stands for? Just Over Broke
So I would like to ask you, what’s your definition of success?
It’s something to think about hey, but it’s so important because if you set out to achieve other’s definition of success, you will end up very dissatisfied and unfulfilled when you achieve your goals. THE KEY is to ask yourself what do I want in life and more importantly why do I want it?
There are two ways to get your answers to these loaded questions, either through pain or inspiration. People change for two reasons- they see the light or they feel the heat. Some people go through a painful experience that makes them realise that they’re not on the path to their definition of success, like working for 20 years and then getting laid off from your company. Sacrificing 20 years of your life for a company simply to find out that you can be replaced at the drop of a hat must really be painful. This painful experience causes them to question the ‘career model’ of life, of sacrificing your valuable time to build something that you’ll never own and in that moment they make the decision to start their own business and never work for anybody else again. This known as the power of pain.
The good news is that there is better way to get your answers to what do I want and why do I want it, and that’s through inspiration. I’m sure you’ve had those ‘a-ha’ moments when someone said something you’ve heard or read and something clicked and decided to change. To change your model of life or change your very definition of success.
This is where a coach comes in, as having a coach will inspire you to focus on end goals as opposed to means goals. A good coach can guide you in setting up a strategy that will make you experience what you truly want in life- to enjoy life, be happy and reach your full potential.
Now I’m not saying having a coach will eliminate all pain from your life, it will however reduce pain in your life. As a coach is someone that is already where you want to be and can save you a lot of time, expenses and pain on your life journey.
A wise man learns from his own mistakes, but a genius learns from the mistakes from others.
The more we allow inspiration to grow us as oppose to pain, our experiences in life improves drastically and we begin to enjoy life more.
If you would like to take action now by choosing inspiration as oppose to pain, then email me your End Goal in life, it can be- to be happier, to stress less, to be more financially free, to have a more active and healthier life, to be less materialistic and more spiritual, or even to grow your business, I will personally email you a strategy statement within 48 hours at no cost, it will be my gift to you! Having strategy will help you get clear on what you want and experience a more happier, productive fun and loving life!
The key to success is always begin with the end in mind!
If you would like to find out more information regarding the coaching packages that I offer you can fill out the form below and together we can unleash your full potential!
Having a coach in your life will be able help you set up a clear roadmap of action steps and also hold you accountable to those action steps (through regular performance reviews).
You don’t have to live life on auto-pilot, you can live ON PURPOSE and experience a richer, happier and fulfilled life! “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out WHY.” -Mark Twain